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I am seventy years old and unmarried. Because I cannot afford to retire, I continue to teach. I can’t afford to retire and keep my house since I have debt from my mortgage.
I spent all of my available funds caring for my mother for six years in order to prevent her from needing to enter a nursing facility. I’m in need of an angel who can help me improve my circumstances.
Do unmarried individuals like myself have any options?
Unable to move in class
Greetings, Stuck
Since you assist children on a daily basis and support your mother, it seems to me that you are the angel. You merit a respite and the opportunity to concentrate on yourself.
You don’t need someone to come to your rescue for that, and there probably isn’t any cavalry on hand anyhow. Fortunately, you have everything you need, but as one of the five million or so single teenagers out there, a well-thought-out plan will help you feel better about things. Furthermore, it’s not too late to be 70. If you’re still getting up for school every day and working with kids for a living, you’re clearly strong and active.
Despite the fact that you appear to be getting older, you have three very significant advantages that you highlight in this letter:
1) You are still working and have had a career teaching. That means you have income for now, plus you most likely have a pension of some sort that you have maximized after working so many years.
2) You are a homeowner. Even if costs are high, you have equity of some sort, which gives you options.
3) You can start claiming Social Security benefits now, even if you were restricted before because of provisions that prevented teachers and other civil servants from collecting benefits and pension, called WEP and GPO.
Here are some things to think about in order to combine these components into a very basic two-part aging plan:
Your revenue-generating plan
Given that you claim to have spent all of your money caring for your mother, you will need to manage all of your income sources extremely effectively after you retire. You must create a budget that fits with the amount of Social Security and your pension if that is all you have. To save for emergencies, try to keep your monthly expenditure below that amount.
You might be able to make some additional cash tutoring if you can make money off of your teaching abilities. The amount of money parents are ready to spend on professional assistance for their kids in a variety of areas may surprise you; the most common requests are for college and SAT preparation. You can likely assist some parents who require assistance in overcoming the bureaucratic obstacles of the school system in order to obtain services for their children.
Providing care, perhaps not full-time but as an elder companion or other type of assistant, is another source of money to think about. It’s clear that you have much experience in this field as well. As a useful ability to impart, you may even teach others how to be caregivers.
There are ways to make this work, to put it simply. Even if it might feel unattainable, you’re already taking action. You’re 70 years old and still employed in a challenging field. You are, in my opinion, a success story.
Your living arrangements and long-term care
Joy Loverde’s “Who Will Take Care of Me When I’m Old,” which outlines all the steps you need to take to plan for yourself and organize your affairs, is the resource I most frequently consult when looking for assistance for single older adults. You looked after your mother, but who will look after you if you need assistance?
Loverde advises evaluating whether your beloved property is secure and suitable for aging in place, which goes beyond simply being able to pay for the upkeep. Do they have stairs? Does the restroom have grab bars? Is there a walk to shovel or a grass to mow?
You can combine all of your decisions on housing and long-term care needs into one move if you take a realistic approach and don’t believe you can handle it on your own. I am aware that you adore your home. Most people want to age in place. It’s not always the greatest option, though.
Now is the time to look at additional possibilities, such as nursing homes, assisted living facilities, or continuing care retirement communities. These can adapt to your changing needs. Taking in a boarder or sharing resources with a buddy and moving in together are examples of other casual shared living arrangements. To get the most out of them, you should act before a crisis arises so that you can utilize the equity in your home as leverage for your next move.
There are alternative methods to leverage the equity in your home to improve your financial situation if that isn’t acceptable to you. You could take out a reverse mortgage on your house as you are an owner and over 62. You wouldn’t have to worry about repaying any liens, so you could take out more than you could with a home equity line of credit. With a reverse mortgage, your home serves as security for a loan that, instead of you making payments, pays out to you on a regular basis. Since you are not concerned about leaving your home to your heirs, this could be a wonderful way to extract value from your home now and reduce your monthly expenditures because you would receive money instead of paying a mortgage. The note is paid off after you pass away.
You should first speak with a credit counselor or an advocate at a social-service organization such as the National Council on Aging because reverse mortgage documents can be confusing. In addition to connecting you with other community services, they can assist you in comprehending all the hazards involved. If you search for them, you will find other angels just like you.
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